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Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Condoms for 6-year-olds?

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In some schools across the country, condoms are given out to kids in grades 1 through 12. This week’s question is: Does this cross the line?  Is it ever too early to begin the sex conversation with your kids?  Maybe you are glad that more pressure is put on the schools to educate children about safe sex? There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise!  Get the conversations going in the comment box below.    

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Jennifer Simckowitz

8:33 am on Thursday, May 5, 2011

Agreed! I'm not a parent, but I find myself appalled sometimes when I go to the mall.   more ›

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Crime, Your Kid and GPS?

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Social and cultural historians often ask whether some event or trend is really happening more today than yesterday, or is it just more talked about today than yesterday? This week’s question is a two-parter:  1.        Is there more crime and are there more kidnappings today than when you were growing up, or has instant access to world news made it seem like there are more incidences?  2.        Either way, would you ever consider a GPS chip for your child?  Or maybe an ID chip like you can get for your pets?  There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise!  Get the conversations going in the comment box below.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Ban Bag Lunches?

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A school in Chicago has taken healthy eating to the extreme, by banning home lunch and insisting that students eat food provided by the school. Reports AOL News.com, “Little Village Academy principal Elsa Carmona said she banned bagged lunches six years ago because students were bringing junk food to school. She said the meals at school, which are provided by food contractor Chartwells-Thompson, are usually healthier.” This week’s question is: Good idea or not? Many parents bag lunch not only because it helps them control what their children eat, but also because it can be less expensive. Is it right to mandate that parents must spend even more money on school lunch? There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise!  Get …

Marisa Powers

11:59 pm on Saturday, April 23, 2011

on the whole, i disagree that this should be made a rule. however, my daughter is in a peanut-free classroom, which means that, instead of sending in snacks for our kids, we send in $2 and the teacher is in charge of the snacks. i love it, and i can't imagine having to pack lunch and snack 5 days a week. lunch is difficult enough, knowing how picky my kid is. if the school were to offer super-…   more ›

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Would You Get an F?

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According to the Florida news source Sun Sentinel, change might be afoot in the Sunshone State that would start grading parents as well as kids: “Parents with children in pre-K-to-third-grade would get ‘satisfactory,’ ‘needs improvement’ or ‘unsatisfactory’ ratings in four broad categories. They would be judged on their response to requests for meetings or communication, their children's completion of homework and preparation for tests, their children's absentee and tardy rates and their children's "physical preparation for school," including a good night's sleep and appropriate meals.” Furthermore, “Parents' grades would appear on their kids' report cards.” This week’s question is: Would this help parents understand how much more involved…

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: What is Worth Your Time?

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There is pressure from everywhere: your children, your spouse, your parents and in-laws. It seems that you are needed and pulled in every direction. And last but (maybe) not least, your kids’ schools have PTO meetings, fundraisers, school pictures, class shows, volunteer opportunities and more. You work, take care of the kids and your home. This week’s question is: How much of your time do you devote to school-related activities? Do you think you should do more, or do you think that activities like this are a waste of time? There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise! Get the conversations going in the comment box below.

Melissa Meece

12:28 pm on Thursday, April 7, 2011

I absolutely don't think that activities like these are a waste of time. There are so many schools that are short on funds and have no enrichment. From personal experience as a member of my kids elementary school PTO there is GREAT need for parent involvement!!! Our PTO raised money through fundraising activities and that money went DIRECTLY to the students for field trips or school supplies for …   more ›

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: How Much Would You Charge?

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According to the National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies (as cited in a USAToday article), Massachusetts parents shell out approximately $9,600 per kid per year for preschool care. That's about 40 percent of your average salary if you are a single parent, and 10 percent if there is a two-parent income. In the whole country, only three other states' preschool costs were ranked more expensive: New York, Minnesota and California. That's a lot of money - but, then again, these are our children.   The question this week, then, is this: If you had your own preschool, how much would you charge? Would you factor in a 2 week vacation, like many preschools do? Would you take off all holidays? If you were responsible for …

Marisa Powers

8:34 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

i guess, in theory, i don't mind paying a lot for day care, because i think that this is where our money should go. other things should be less expensive so that we can put more money towards making sure that daycare and preschool providers have the tools and supplies they need. in practice, the last time i put my kid in daycare i ended up taking home about 20 dollars a day, after childcare …   more ›

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Should I Tell Your Kids What to Do?

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Playground etiquette might not be the juiciest topic, until you find yourself looking for the mother of the kid who is running up the slide and about to plow into your child.  This week’s question is: Should you say something to an offending child’s parent, or maybe to the child him/herself? If so, what are some suggestions for handling this in a productive way? There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise! Get the conversations going in the comment box below.

Linda Stranger

10:25 am on Thursday, March 24, 2011

It's been a while since I was faced with this dilemma, but in the past, I have gently explained towards the offending child, and within earshot of all, how to play more safely, so as not to hurt oneself, or others. If the little darling chose to ignore my advice, I would coax my child away to another area of the playground for their safety. I have found that approaching the little darling's …   more ›

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Spanking

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Bend anyone over your lap lately?  According to a 2002 Public Agenda poll, the chances of you spanking your child are good. In fact, 57% of parents acknowledge spanking their kids.  Time Magazine Online wrote, “Parents who do it argue that occasional spanking is an important disciplinary tool. Parents who don't do it say hitting a child teaches that violence is O.K.” The question this week, simply put, is: If you spank, are you a good or bad parent, or is there somewhere in between? There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise! Get the conversations going in the comment box below.

Lainey R.

1:19 pm on Wednesday, March 16, 2011

If it is just spanking, it is OK. I do agree that there is a fine line here between disipline and child abuse but some times (rare occasions but they do happen) spanking or even a threat of spanking will be the only thing that gets your childs attention.   more ›

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: How Much is Too Much Tech?

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You see them everywhere: kids on their Nintendo DS’s texting to their buddies while listening to their iPod’s. Besides their uncanny ability to play games on a tiny screen with a tiny stylus without running into light posts, buildings or traffic, kids might be losing out with so much tech time in their lives. Many parenting magazines and websites warn us that too much time playing video games and surfing the internet raises the chance of becoming obese. Research also suggests that tech-y kids aren’t getting the proper amount of face-time with friends, thus stunting social development. This week’s burning question comes from your own local Patch's Parents Council:  If all of his friends are doing it, how much should you limit your child’s …

Marisa Powers

11:09 pm on Friday, March 11, 2011

Both my kids LOVE movies. We don't have cable, so their choices are pretty limited. well, they have one option, and, even though it's awesome, no one can watch PBS all the time. we watch a LOT of movies. But the girls play during the movies, too, and sometimes don't even pay attention when we turn it off. We have at least one outing a day, and i can't wait until they can stay outside a little …   more ›

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Parent Talk Q & A: Me-Time = Guilt Time?

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“Me-time.”  For many parents, the phrase is both the joke and the punch line. In theory, you know you need to do your own thing every once in awhile.  It makes you happy, and happiness is contagious.  In practice, though, taking time for yourself often creates a sense of guilt: you think leaving your family for an hour or two means you don’t like them, or that you’re not a good parent because your patience has run out. Every parent has felt that way. Tell us if you’ve ever gotten over the guilt, and how you’ve done it. There’s some parent out there right now in need of your expertise! Get the conversations going in the comment box below.

JLMS

1:38 pm on Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Maybe it is because I read as many HUMOROUS pregnancy books as I could the first time around, or maybe it is because I have a lot of great friends and family, but I never had "The Guilts". I MISSED my kids when I went out and had to break out of thinking of them every minute I was away, but I take my girls nights out when I can. It makes me a better mom. I always felt like I needed to keep my …   more ›

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